Sunday, April 8, 2012

How to get back your ex-boyfriend

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How to get back your ex-boyfriend is not easy especially if your misunderstanding is so great that there seems to be no way around it. But believing that everybody deserves a second chance could give you another shot in getting your ex want you back.

Of course if you were the one who broke up with him, all you have to do is to humble yourself and apologize for your mistake, you would surely get back your ex boyfriend if you have not physically or emotionally harmed him. That’s why remember not to say a word when you’re in the heat of anger because you might regret it eventually.

If he was the one who broke up with you, then it would be a different story. You will have to use an approach that would not be too forward and offensive to him. Majority of men want their women to have a life of their own. They usually avoid the “clingy” type, those who could throttle them with their over concern and protectiveness. They feel their freedom is restricted with a clingy woman, so they would try hard to avoid these types of women.

If you want to get your ex back, here are simple ways on how to get back your ex.

Don’t beg for him to come back to you

Show him that your world does not revolve around him. But don’t go out alone with a man. Go out in groups and show him that you are surviving happily. This would make him think twice of his decision. This is negative psychology.

Re-invent yourself

Go get some haircut and buy a new wardrobe. Re-invent yourself. Make yourself even more beautiful. Be jovial and happy. When he sees you around having the time of your life, he would wonder why he had broken up with you. This is one significant method on how to get back your ex-boyfriend. If you want your ex to want you back, you have to show him that you are not bothered by his absence. If he sees the new you, he will be reminded of why he had wanted you in the first place.

Don’t call him up

Don’t ever call him telling him how you missed him. This would push him farther away. Just go about your daily activity cheerfully and happily. He would realize that he is the one missing out with your break-up and would want you back again.

Don’t get a new boyfriend

This is a no-no. Although, you would not hover over him and shower him with how much you are missing him, you should not get a boyfriend on the rebound. Most men are possessive; they want their girl to be faithful to them only. This is part of their male-ego. If he sees you with another man, then this might drive him farther away because he would think you could easily flip from one relationship to another.

Just by these simple steps, soon, you would notice that he may start “courting” you anew. He would realize that you are a precious gem that anyone would treasure. These are ways on how to get back your ex boyfriend. Learn and apply them, and if you're lucky, then you will get him back. Of course there would be some couples in which these methods could not be used. Find the method that would work for your boyfriend and get him back into your arms.

1 comment:

  1. Thanks for the tips. This is very true. I've learned this one the hard way though. I loved and lost, and loved and lost, and still counting. LOL.

    But I try not to think of the ex courting me again. I just cry, live each day at at time, then move on.